Friendship:Within Every Relationship

Do you all feel that every relationship in your life should have a little friendship in it. Parents Colleagues, co worker, family like everyone you have your life connected and dependent too.

I feel that and hope for you all too. An air of little bit friendship in a relationship is altogether a great thing.

We can share things deeply confined in our hearts our sorrows our fears our tensions our worries to them without thinking that they will perceive them at another level. What we know that no matter what the outcome is they will listen and understand.

Every relation in life should have an essence of friendship in it. Sometime the bitter things becomes bittersweet and sweet things becomes happiness like panipuri when u share it with a friend.

I realized friends don’t have the right to take every decisions of urs as they know u better than u but they do make u believe that no matters what happens we will always there for u .

As year passes Life becomes big and bigger but with friends problems becomes small and smaller

Got Cousins of similar age all childhood spent in competition around studies, The who’s is better egos,  fights around clothes and blah blah blah uff. But now if u got chance talk to them (just take that chance now), you will realize we all our the same .

God wanted us to be related and suddenly you will find a new friend in them going through same up and downs in life desiring the same thing from life but this time no fights only hopes. Thats Friendship.They will listen to you understand what you feel and your POV (short name for Point of view hehehehe) as they do desire the same .. Understanding

Talk to people who listen to you like buddies. This might not cure things around you but at least gave you the feeling that someone listened to you without prejudice

Have someone in your family (anyone parents uncle aunts grandparents) who finds out the sudden fall in the pitch of your laughs and understands everything. No explanation.

We all grew up and expected to be matured and take care of our self but that feeling of acting immature irresponsible and foolish demands friendship in people surrounding you.

Not everyone desires a love story.

Sometimes you just want a story of friendship memories truth understanding and imperfections that will take life to where it meant to be .

So Just Hold on ….

Talk to people who understands you like your friends. This might not resolve your problem but it definitely increases your chances to defend that problem

 

Just find friends around you , within you and tackle life and its challenges not for you but for these visible and invisible friends of yours who cant you defeated and lost.

” There are friends and there is family …. Best thing There are friends who became family and there is family who became friends”

Happy Friendly Relationships life…….

I wanted to write a lot more about that will be in store from my next blog : What my friend gave me …..

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